Helen Margaret Oakley Dance, née Oakley (15 February 1913 – 27 May 2001) was born in Toronto into a wealthy family, her early education was overseen by a succession of governesses, and completed at finishing school in Lausanne. After being presented as a debutante at the 1932-33 season in Toronto, she travelled to England - in time to attend Ellington's ground-breaking concerts at the London Palladium. She got to know Ellington personally when she moved to Detroit, ostensibly to pursue a career as a jazz singer. From 1934, she worked as a freelance reporter in Chicago, writing for the Herald Tribune and contributing to Down Beat magazine. She also began to produce recordings for Okeh, and to organise afternoon jazz concerts. Her first act of note in jazz history was in introducing Teddy Wilson to the Benny Goodman Orchestra and persuaded them to play in Chicago. It was one of the first sit-down jazz concerts in America and was also significant because it was a public performance with an interracial ensemble. She later made other efforts to help interracial music collaboration, and was the host of significant parties and concerts for the jazz world. She also helped coordinate Benny Goodman's January 1938 Carnegie Hall concert - the first jazz concert at the venue. She joined the Irving Mills office in New York in the late 1930s. Mills was the manager of Duke Ellington, and Oakley produced a series of small-band recordings for Master and Variety that allowed the Duke and soloists like Johnny Hodges to create a bank of swing classics. She handled public relations for a host of artists, organised the "battles of swing" at the Savoy Ballroom in Harlem, and was involved in Benny Goodman's triumphant New York concert at Carnegie Hall in 1937. She helped another socialite, John Hammond, set up the legendary ‘Spirituals To Swing’ events, which brought many little-known African-American performers to the attention of sophisticated New York audiences. Oakley socialised with prominent jazz writers of the day. These included Hugues Panassie, from France, and her future husband, the producer and writer Stanley Dance. They met when she organised his first visit to New York, in 1937. Dance became a renowned authority on, and close confidant of, Duke Ellington, but he would always remind others that his wife "was there first".
The outbreak of WW II put everything on hold. Helen Oakley served in Africa and Italy with the OSS, the forerunner of the CIA. Rupert Oakley, Stanley Dance's best friend and Helen's brother, was killed at the bloody raid on Dieppe in August, 1942. Dance served as a lookout for in the Observer Corps from 1937-45 and during this time lost 80% of the hearing in one ear.
Helen Oakley married in Stanley in 1946 or 7, the obituaries vary, and lived at 5, Bradford Street for the next 12 years during which time they had four children, Theresa, Rupert, Francis and Maria. Helen never got on with the English climate so as soon as Stanley’s father died in 1959 the tobacconist business was sold and they moved to the USA, first to Connecticut. Once there, they pursued their joint jazz interests, Stanley becoming a producer and writer, collaborating with his wife on many projects associated with Ellington or with pianist Earl Hines, for whom he acted as manager.
In the 1960s, Helen took an increasingly active part in the US civil rights movement, founding the Catholic Interracial Council in Connecticut and editing various publications. She also handled publishing rights for Johnny Hodges and Earl Hines, and conducted interviews for the Smithsonian Institution and Rutgers University oral history projects. But her greatest achievement was Stormy Monday (1987), her sympathetic and affectionate portrait of the T-Bone Walker story.
In 1978, the Dances moved to Vista, California, and were soon involved with the jazz scene in nearby San Diego, taking part in jazz cruises as guest lecturers, with Helen also writing liner notes for major reissue programmes, often devoted to recordings she had originally supervised.